Ang Pag-ibig

Ang pag-ibig, hindi parang cellphone
'pag naluma, papalitan
Ang pag-ibig, hindi parang damit
'pag may bagong uso, papalitan

Kung sabihin kong mahal kita
Yan ay totoo sinta
Wag na wag kang magdududa
Hindi kita binobola

Panghabang buhay ang pag-ibig ko sa'yo, o sinta
Kahit na ika'y pumangit, hindi kita ipagpapalit
Panghabang buhay ang pag-ibig ko sa'yo o sinta
Kahit na ika'y makalbo, hindi ako magbabago

Ah ha huh.. 4x

Ang pag-ibig, hindi parang pagkain
'pag pinagsawaan, pamimigay nalang
Ang pag-ibig, hindi parang pusa
pag maingay, ililigaw nalang

Kung sabihin kong mahal kita
Yan ay totoo sinta
Wag na wag kang magdududa
Hindi kita binobola
Panghabang buhay ang pag-ibig ko sa'yo, o sinta
Kahit na ika'y tumaba, hindi ako mangangaliwa
Panghabang buhay ang pag-ibig ko sa'yo, o sinta
Kahit na magka-wrinkles ka, iki-kiss pa rin kita.

Ah ha huh.. 4x


Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it
does not boast, it is not proud, it is not rude
It is a not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it
keeps no record of wrongs
Love does not delight of evil, but rejoices with the
truth
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes and
always perseveres.

Panghabang buhay ang pag-ibig ko sa'yo, o sinta
Kahit na topakin ka, iintindihin kita
Panghabang buhay ang pag-ibig ko sa'yo, o sinta
Kahit na may kasalanan ka, iiyak ako
pero papatawarin kita

Ah ha huh.. 2x
Ah ha ah ha ah..

Ah ha hum.. 2x
Ah ha ah ha ah..

New JOURNEY

Sometimes it takes a painful situation to make us change our ways
and what I've lost made me realize that what i have now is far way better than I realize

- hagz

If you're having a hard time letting go, realize that if they wanted to stay, they'd still be there. Sometimes you have to forget what's gone, appreciate what still remains, and look forward to what's coming next. It sucks when you know that you need to let go, but you can't, because you're still waiting for the impossible to happen. Although it may seem like the wrong thing to do, you have to forget about the person who forgot about you. Some people are meant to stay in your heart, but not in your life.

I know somebody out there is destined for me. All just i have to do is to let go and forgive the pain that still remain in my heart now. 

I am setting my heart free...  and will just wait for that someone whom deserves my sacrifices and commitment.. For now I will take a good rest at my heart 'coz I know how much hurt it has. I know that it's not easy to let go but I must do. I wanna see that smile again.

YOU

 

 

 The BEST RELATIONSHIP is when you two can act like lovers and best friends.

 

 

It's when you have more playful moments than serious moments.

 

 

 

It's when you can joke around, have unexpected hugs and random kisses.

 

 

 

It's when you two give each other that specific stare and just smile.

 

 

It's when you'll rather chill inside to watch movies, eat junk foods and cuddle than go out all the time.

It's when you'll stay up all night just to settle your argument and problems.

It's when you can completely act yourself and they can still love you for who your are.

Thank YOU

- for always being THERE, exactly when I needed you.

- for being the one I could tell anything to.

- for being my crying shoulder

- for depending me

- for telling me everything that I need to know, even that you know it could hurt me (just by being true)

- for understanding me whenever I felt like no one did

- for telling me I wasn't alone

- for putting me up when I was broken hearted, crying baby, and so down

- for wiping away my tears and putting back a smile

- for telling me that everything will be just OKAY 

 

             - for complimenting me even if I was not at my best

- for opening up to me 

- for trusting me with all your secrets

- for making me feel that i am needed 

- for the call, text and all the thing that are heartily given from you

- for always believing me

- for not laughing at my dreams

- for trusting me

- for loving me the way I am

- for making me feel good or confident

- for letting me know that I wasn't the only one who did crazy things

- for giving me the best two choices

- for all the times you make me laugh

- for listening

- for talking to me

- for getting me out of trouble

- for helping me

- for giving me advice

- for encouraging me

- for confiding me

- for sticking up with me when everyone else left

- for being the one I can count on

- for doing crazy, silly things with me sometimes

- for sharing with me some of the happiest moments of my life

- comforting me when I was broken

- for hanging out with me

- for missing me

- for teaching me that friends come and go but you'll always be there

- for remembering me

- for standing by me trough thick and thin

- for smiling for me

- but most of ALL....

I wanna THANK YOU for being my BEST FRIEND.. I'm really grateful that once in my life there comes YOU..

Cecile Lorraine Banas

Taking a Good Rest

Don`t quit because something went wrong. Quit because you tried your hardest & nothing made it better.

I keep thinking of how much I love talking to you. How good you look when you smile. How much I love your laugh. I daydream about you off and on, replaying pieces of our conversations; laughing at funny things that you said or did. I've memorized your face and the way that you look at mine. I catch myself smiling again at what I imagine. I wonder what will happen the next time we are together and even though neither of us know what the future holds, I know one thing for sure; you're the best thing that has ever happened to me. Thank you for always being there when I was almost can't understand myself. For always listening at my stupidity when I am mad. 

-and this was all a memory to me..

I LOVE YOU (Sunshine)

I LOVE YOU hindi ko man masabi.
wala man akong pinaparamdam,
ikaw ay importante sa aking puso.

BECAUSE I LOVE YOU, lahat ng pasakit ay kakayanin ko.
hindi dahil tanga ako para sayo,
kundi ganyan ako pag magmahal sa isang katulad mo.


DAHIL: TRUe LOVE SETS FREE, pakakawalan kita.
pero di naman ibig sabihin ay wala ka na para sa akin,
di rin pwedeng sabihin di kita kayang panindigan sa iba.


KASI: THE MEMORIES OF US: ay laging iingatan ko.
Tatanda man tayo, isipin mong pagibig ko sayo.
Tunay, wagas, at walang pagbabago.

AND IF I COULD SEE YOU AGAIN: na masaya na sa piling ng mahal mo.
ako ang unang taong ang syang magsasabi,
"Masaya na ako dahil Masaya ka sa piling niya."

A TRUE LOVE: is not just about having the one you love,
kasi ang tunay na pagmamahal na maaari
nating maramdaman ay di lamang para...

SA HAPPY ENDING STORIES: may mga storya ring hindi nagtatapos sa happy ending. Ngunit ang pagmamahaan nila sa isa't-isa ay di matumbasan ng kahit anong drama na pwedeng makasira sa relasyon nila. A lot of people believe that true love is just for happy ending stories. Think about of people who were unfortunate to have the one they love, but still they are happy with their lives. Setting free, is not letting the one you love forget you. But you're just letting them go, where you know they are more comfortable and happy to the path they choose to go. Making perfect Love Story in reality is not the most important thing because True Love is about satisfying others wants, letting them choose what makes them happy. For when you love you always consider the best for your partner, First and foremost is that "You are the most happy person when the one you Love is happy for what He choose to live with- its not about He leaves you, but it is how she cared that he don't want to lie to you. Somehow, you get mad at Him you'll realized then that, "Being in a relationship that is not happy would still end. " Ending that would make you a bitter person. Yet, time will heal and realization will come out. Forgetting the bitter moments of yesterday is so hard to do but a heart that has the willingness to forgive has the first to say, "I'm happy though were not together. Because of what I let go, I found out what really makes me happy."

fOr You :)

Forever

I may burn out like a candle and

I may pass away

I may fall just like a shooting star

my heart will stay

I'll be yours until forever,

forever I'll be true to the promise

I have made from the day that

I found you

forever your in my heart

even if were apart

 

I say, forever I'll be yours

forever I love you

I say, forever I'll be yours

forever I love you

my love will never fade away

even if I'll die and

I will love you until the end of time

even without your smile

So help me please I beg you

don't walk away I need you

just stay with me and be by my side

take my hand and will work it out

Until forever I'll be yours

forever I love you

I say, forever I'll be yours

forever I'll be true

my love will never fade away

even if I'll die and

I will love you until the end of time

even without your smile

So help me please I beg you

to stay....

WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP ARE YOU IN ??

1)      The Coochycoo one- They are the kinds who sit on the same side of the table always, irrespective of the fact that they make the friends who happen to be in their company uncomfortable. They get all mushy and starry eyed because for them love is a fairytale. You can call them the beginners and you can see the Public display of affection decrease with time. They could be a fling or just an experience in the big bag of life.

2)      The Married souls- I call them this, not because they are married but because they behave like perfect couples. They know everything there is to know about each other, or they like to believe that way. They seem perfect in everyone’s eyes. Not too romantic but when it’s needed, a twinkle in the eye or a little smile passes the message. I would like to see them be together for life, but looking at the relationships around me, majority hit rock bottom due to many issues like ‘ Family Priorities’, ‘ Not in love anymore’ etc. But some do survive and I would love to see that happen.

3)       The Hush Hush ones- They could be friends turned lovers, classmates or colleagues at work.  They are committed but for reasons reasonable enough for them, they keep it a secret. Even when their close friends are smart enough to make out what’s going on and are frank enough to ask, these couples will never reveal the truth. I read this somewhere ‘If you have to keep your relationship a secret, why be in one’. 

4)      The Practical- They look like the perfect couple. A friend, a lover, a protector, they can be whatever their lover needs from them. They are the ones who make you go “I wish I had someone like that”. But when you esquire about their future together, they say “Love cannot feed you for life. If we both manage to get jobs good enough to live together happily without any compromises or blaming each other, and if we still love each other they way we do now, then we would get married". You frown at that answer, but for them that makes perfect sense.

5)      The Open Hearts- They define what they have for each other as ‘Love’ but that doesn’t stop them from looking for better options. The Open relationship could be one sided without the other partner being aware of it, or it could be a mutual decision. I am none to comment but I am strongly against this kind. 

6)      The Mysterious kinds- They have no definition and they try to hide away from the questions you throw at them regarding their status. They are not JUST FRIENDS and nor are they GOING AROUND. They get jealous when the other smiles to an opposite sex or gets too friendly with them. They care enough about each other to be called MADLY IN LOVE, but they do not define it and are happy exploring as to what it really is. Time gets the privilege to define it and I respect that. 

7)      The On & Offs- These are common to find. One day they are cuddling in each others arms and the next day they are punching each other in a mad frenzy and you have to pull them off each other lest one of them dies. The next day you see them love kissed again. So whenever someone in this kind of relationship comes to me and says "I broke up with him. He is such a nincompoop", I smile without looking at her and say "I hope you say the same tomorrow" 

【 RELATiONSHiPS HAVE STAGES ♥ 】

【 STAGE 1 (1-3 Months): The Honeymoon Stage 】

Everything seems perfect, both are happy and feeling “in love.” You share moments, dates and just having fun with each other, sharing laughs and giggles. It’s like nothing could stop you. Your feelings are infinite, and for once you’re thinking, “This may work out….” and it seems like nothing could go wrong. You spend hours getting ready before going out with this person.

*If your relationship ended in this stage — Most likely, both rushed into the relationship too quickly. Being together was all too sudden and just for the moment. When one starts noticing the flaws, one gets a choice to move foward, or back away. Being friends has a high percentage of working out, but nothing to stress over. Both may just need the time to get to know one another better.

【 STAGE 2 (4-6 months): The Bumpy Road 】

Things are going okay now. The relationship is calm and settled; both are still mostly happy. Had a couple arguments and disagreements here and there, nothing huge. Start to notice some of each other’s flaws and aspects of their personalities not seen before, but still truly care for one another.

*If your relationship ended in this stage — You truly cared about this person. You had the energy to fight for this person, yet you feel as if something was lacking, something was missing. It doesn’t feel right, one isn’t happy. When one isn’t happy, one tends to walk away to seek their new happiness. Being friends is still a possibility.

【 STAGE 3 (7-12 months): The Rocky Mountain 】

You start to realize who your partner really is. A few more arguments may occur. Problems with jealously, overprotectiveness may arise. Other people may come in the picture. The “in love” moments start to decrease, but you feel as if you’ve “fallen in love.” You tend to have this energy inside to strive and “make it work,” and you feel more comfortable being around this person, feeling more of yourself.

*If your relationship ends in this stage — You feel as if you’re hurt, depending on the circumstances. You were so sure that that person was “The One.” You were so SURE that he/she was different. But like a cancer, a problem that may have happened, a small issue, grew into something larger that took over what was made between two people. You still miss this person from time to time. You still remember the memories. Being friends may be difficult right away, but over time, you slowly mature up, and learn the reality of it.

【 STAGE 4 (1 year or more): The Long Road 】

1, 2, 3, 4, 5 years, huh? This person truly means something to you. You are “in love” with this person. He/she made a difference in your life. No one else knows you more than this person. You guys have been through the good, the bad, and the ugly, and still strive to make it last.

*If your relationship ends in this stage — You feel heartbroken; it’s tough. You can’t sleep, can’t eat, you miss him/her, you try to move on, you try meeting new people, but seems like nothing works. For whatever reason the split occured, it must’ve been something important, or something must have been so wrong that it took over. Being “just friends” is impossible, because if you tried to be friends, you wouldn’t be able to think of them in any other way besides the one you once “loved”