Loving Your Own

I remember reading a book that In able to love any body else.. You must see to love yourself first. :) .. I've been frustrated this past few months and I think last year was the hardest part of my journey in life. I lost someone whom I love most, my father and someone whom I thought could last. I've been holding on for this man, 3 years maybe. And now I'm starting off to a new life and definitely with out him on the plans. I've planned my life a s everyone knows and I'm gonna make it till I am done. I am happy right now without the things I knew that can help me and complete me(definitely him).  I'm just happy being single. :P.. 

Anyway.. Reymond? yeah .. I broke up with him upon seeing him with another girl. I'm feed up with lies.. Yeah I loved him though I don't really like him.. I hate that he has no time for me and I accepted that because I know he's being busy at work and at school, but later on I found out that he has another.. hahaha!! pity me.. :p.. 

Being single doesn't mean that nobody likes you.. Its just that your getting ready your heart for the next heart break.. :).. I love just the way I am today.. Problems are still on board but it's bearable.  :)

By the way.. Thanks.. to someone.. for making me realize that LOVE is still everywhere.. You just have to notice it.. <3 <3 <3 .. :)

HaPPy Birthday "WELLA"

“A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.”










Thank you for being such  good and nice friend. I hope that in a way in any circumstances, you won't change and leave our friendship behind. Thank you for always being the first one who listens, the one whom we could turn on during our bad days.. hahahaha!! Love you so much well..

HAPPY BIRTHDAY WELLA!!!

May you have all the joy your heart can hold, All the smiles a day can bring, All the blessings a life can unfold, May you get  the World’s best in everything. Wishing u a !!!!Happy Birthday!!!!

From:

Shing

Joanne

Eyin

Rose

THE FIVE STAGES OF DRUNKENNESS

Stage 1 - CLEVER This is when you suddenly become an expert on every subject in the known universe. You know you know everything and you want to pass on your knowledge to anyone who will listen. At this stage you are always right. And, of course, the person you are talking to is very wrong. This makes for an interesting argument when both parties are CLEVER. 

Stage 2 - ATTRACTIVE This is when you realise that you are the most ATTRACTIVE person in the entire bar and that everyone fancies you. You can go up to a perfect stranger knowing that they fancy you and really want to talk to you. Bear in mind that you are still CLEVER, so you can talk to this person About any subject under the sun. 

Stage 3 - RICH This is when you suddenly become the RICHEST person in the room. You can buy drinks for the entire bar because you have a bottomless wallet. You can also make bets at this stage because of course you are still CLEVER so, naturally, you will always win. Anyway, it doesn't matter how much you bet because you are RICH. You will also buy drinks for everyone that you fancy, in the knowledge that you are clearly the most ATTRACTIVE person present. 

Stage 4 - INVINCIBLE You are now ready to pick fights with anyone and everyone, especially those with whom you have been betting or arguing. This is because you are now INVINCIBLE. At this point you can also go up to the partners of the people who you fancy and challenge them to a battle of wits or strength. You have No fear of losing this battle, because as well as being INVINCIBLE you are CLEVER, you're RICH and you're more ATTRACTIVE than them anyway. 

Stage 5 - INVISIBLE This is the final stage of drunkenness. At this point you can do anything, because you are now INVISIBLE. You can dance on a table to impress the people who you fancy because the rest of the people in the room cannot see you. You can also snog the face off them for the same reason. You are also INVISIBLE to the people who want to fight you. You can walk through the street singing at the top of your lungs because no one can see or hear you, and because you're still CLEVER you know all the words.

Ways Men are Turned DOWN :o)

HE: Can I buy you a drink?
SHE: Actually I'd rather have the money.

HE: I'm a photographer. I've been looking for a face like yours.
SHE: I'm a plastic surgeon. I've been looking for a face like yours.

HE: Hi, didn't we go on a date once? Or was it twice?
SHE: Must've been once. I never make the same mistake twice.

HE: How did you get to be so beautiful?
SHE: I must've been given your share.

HE: Will you go out with me this Saturday?
SHE: Sorry. I'm having a headache this weekend.

HE: Your face must turn a few heads.
SHE: And your face must turn a few stomachs.

HE: Go on, don't be shy. Ask me out.
SHE: Okay, get out.

HE: I think I could make you very happy.
SHE: Why? Are you leaving?

HE: What would you say if I asked you to marry me?
SHE: Nothing. I can't talk and laugh at the same time.

HE: Can I have your name!?
SHE: Why? don't you already have one?

HE: Shall we go see a movie? 
SHE: I've already seen it.

HE: Where have you been all my life?
SHE: Hiding from you.

HE: Haven't I seen you some place before?
SHE: Yes. That's why I don't go there anymore.

HE: So, what do you do for a living?
SHE: I'm a female impersonator.

HE: Is this seat empty?
SHE: Yes, and this one will be if you sit down.

HE: Hey baby, what's your sign?
SHE: Do not enter.

HE: Your body is like a temple.
SHE: Sorry, there are no services today.

HE: If I could see you naked, I'd die happy.
SHE: If I saw you naked, I'd probably die laughing

HE: Where have you been all my life?
SHE: Where I'll be the rest of your life - in your wildest dreams.

Dating vs. Marriage

When you are dating..... Farting is never an issue.

When you are married ....You make sure there's nothing flammable near your husband at all times.

When you are dating..... He takes you out to have a good time.

When you are married ....He brings home a 6 pack, and says "What are you going to drink?"

When you are dating..... He holds your hand in public.

When you are married ....He flicks your ear in public.

When you are dating..... A Single bed for 2 isn't THAT bad.

When you are married ....A King size bed feels like an army cot.

When you are dating..... You are turned on at the sight of him naked.

When you are married ....You think to yourself "Was he ALWAYS this hairy????"

When you are dating..... You enjoyed foreplay.

When you are married ....You tell him "If we have sex, will you leave me alone???"

When you are dating..... He hugs you, when he walks by you for no reason.

When you are married ....He grabs your boob any chance he gets.

When you are dating..... You picture the two of you together, growing old together.

When you are married ....You wonder who will die first.

When you are dating..... Just looking at him makes you feel all "mushy."

When you are married ....When you look at him, you want to claw his eyes out.

When you are dating..... He knows what the "hamper" is.

When you are married ....The floor will suffice as a dirty clothes storage area.

When you are dating..... He understands if you "Aren't in the mood."

When you are married ....He says "It's your job."

When you are dating..... He understands that you have "male" friends.

When you are married ....He thinks they are all out to steal you away.

When you are dating..... He likes to "discuss" things.

When you are married ....He develops a "blank" stare.

When you are dating..... He calls you by name.

When you are married ....He calls you "Hey" and refers to you when speaking to others as "She."

Pretty Versions., :)

ORIGINAL QUOTE

if you love someone, set her free...

if she comes back, she's yours.

if she doesn't, it was never meant to be.

THE NEW VERSIONS...

Pessimist:

if you love someone, set her free...

if she ever comes back, she's yours.

if she doesn't, as expected, she never was.

whatever gave you the idea that she would anyway?

Optimist:

if you love someone, set her free...

don't worry, she'll come back.

Suspicious:

if you love someone, set her free...

if she ever comes back, ask her why.

Impatient:

if you love someone, set her free...

if she doesn't come back within a week, forget it.

Patient:

if you love someone, set her free...

if she doesn't come back, put your life on hold and sit and wait.

Playful:

if you love someone, set her free...

if she comes back, and if you love her still, set her free again.

repeat if necessary.

Schwarzenegger's fans:

if you love someone, set her free...

SHE'LL BE BACK!

Over possessive person:

if you love someone, don't set her free.

The Human Ecologist:

if you love someone, set her free...

in fact, all living creatures deserve to be free!

Lawyers:

if you love someone, set her free...

clause 1a of paragraph 13a-1 in the second amendment of the 

matrimonial freedom act clearly states that...

Bill Gates:

if you love someone, set her free...

if she comes back, we can charge her for re-installation fees 

and tell her that she's also going to get an upgrade.

Biologist:

if you love someone, set her free... 

she'll evolve.

Statisticians:

if you love someone, set her free...

if she loves you, the probability of her coming back is high.

if she doesn't, your relation was improbable anyway.

The FBI agent:

if you love someone, set her free...

then put bug on her phone and surveillance cameras in her house.

The Pathetic:

if you love someone, set her free...

who wants to be stuck with a loser like you anyway?

The Lawyer:

if you love someone, set her free...

then sue her for emotional distress.

The Psycho:

if you love someone, set her free...

if she doesn't come back, shoot her.

The Creepy Sociopath:

if you love someone, stalk her.

How would we know when it’s time to save the relationship, and when it’s time to let go?

1. One or both of you doesn’t look forward upon see your partner anymore. Let’s admit it, you need not see each other every single day. But when one or both of you started to feel like communicating with your partner is just like a chore, then maybe it’s time to think of going out. 

2. Comparing him or her to another person. No one likes to be compared; especially when in the relationship. Just think of this, “if he or she really loves you, then why compare you to other person… or worse, to his or her ex?” 

3. (Trying to) Change your partner. When you love someone, you have to accept him or her for whatever he or she is. Do not convert your partner. People change and we cannot change “change.” 

4. Nonstop communication with your ex. Once you broke up with an ex, cut the communication. There is no point of reconnecting with an ex especially if you are attached. If you cannot cut your communication with your ex, then maybe it’s time to come up with an exit plan. 

5. Below-the-belt Jokes. There is a clear difference between being humorous and insulting. If the jokes are no longer funny, then it may be time to bolt. 

6. Give and Take. NOT! Having a relationship is a two-way ride. It is a mutual benefit. If the other isn’t doing the giving part and is over benefiting over the other, then it isn't healthy for both parties anymore. 

7. He/She’s not in your top priority. It is understandable that you need to spend some time with your friends and family, but doing it constantly isn't healthy anymore, especially when you no longer look forward to be private with your partner. 

8. Your pals don’t feel him/her anymore. In a relationship, it doesn't have to be vital that your friends like your partner or not – but once your pals started to not feel his or her affect on you anymore, then maybe it’s time to go. Yes, your friends will be there even if they don’t like your partner, but think also that they’d rather see you as you really are even without him or her… if you treat them right. 

9. Your self-esteem dropped. When you are in love, they say you have to be “blooming.” But once you start to feel low, not feel good about yourself, then it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship. 

10. Trust isn't there anymore. When you started to feel not trusted at first, you may felt it strange. But constant feeling of this may mean something is wrong. Remember, trust is one an important factor in a relationship; you don’t want to be with someone who don’t trusts you, don’t you? 

Being in love is the greatest feeling of all. But all of us should know when it is time to re-think and re-evaluate if the relationship is still worth-saving. 

As the rain falls

Listen to me as one listens to the rain,

not attentive, not distracted,

light footsteps, thin drizzle,

water that is air, air that is time,

the day is still leaving,

the night has yet to arrive,

figurations of mist

at the turn of the corner,

figurations of time

at the bend in this pause,

listen to me as one listens to the rain,

without listening, hear what I say

with eyes open inward, asleep

with all five senses awake,

it’s raining, light footsteps, a murmur of syllables,

air and water, words with no weight:

what we are and are,

the days and years, this moment,

weightless time and heavy sorrow,

listen to me as one listens to the rain,

wet asphalt is shining,

steam rises and walks away,

night unfolds and looks at me,

you are you and your body of steam,

you and your face of night,

you and your hair, unhurried lightning,

you cross the street and enter my forehead,

footsteps of water across my eyes,

listen to me as one listens to the rain,

the asphalt’s shining, you cross the street,

it is the mist, wandering in the night,

it is the night, asleep in your bed,

it is the surge of waves in your breath,

your fingers of water dampen my forehead,

your fingers of flame burn my eyes,

your fingers of air open eyelids of time,

a spring of visions and resurrections,

listen to me as one listens to the rain,

the years go by, the moments return,

do you hear the footsteps in the next room?

not here, not there: you hear them

in another time that is now,

listen to the footsteps of time,

inventor of places with no weight, nowhere,

listen to the rain running over the terrace,

the night is now more night in the grove,

lightning has nestled among the leaves,

a restless garden adrift—go in,

your shadow covers this page.

~ Octavio Paz

-you know why i always love the rain? Because it always reminds me of what we had.. & It always falls!! Like ME., :)

45 LESSONS LIFE

1. LIFE ISN'T FAIR, BUT IT'S STILL GOOD.

2. WHEN IN DOUBT, JUST TAKE THE NEXT SMALL STEP.

3. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WASTE TIME HATING ANYONE.

4. YOUR JOB WON'T TAKE CARE OF YOU WHEN YOU ARE SICK. YOUR FRIENDS AND PARENTS WILL. STAY IN TOUCH.

5. PAY OFF YOUR CREDIT CARDS EVERY MONTH.

6. YOU DON'T HAVE TO WIN EVERY ARGUMENT.AGREE TO DISAGREE.

7. CRY WITH SOMEONE. IT'S MORE HEALING THAN CRYING ALONE.

8. IT'S OK TO GET ANGRY WITH GOD. HE CAN TAKE IT.

9. SAVE FOR RETIREMENT STARTING WITH YOUR FIRST PAYCHECK.

10. WHEN IT COMES TO CHOCOLATE, RESISTANCE IS FUTILE.

11. MAKE PEACE WITH YOUR PAST, SO IT WON'T SCREW UP THE PRESENT .

12. IT'S OK TO LET YOUR CHILDREN SEE YOU CRY.

13. DON'T COMPARE YOUR LIFE TO OTHERS. YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THEIR JOURNEY IS ALL ABOUT.

14. IF A RELATIONSHIP HAS TO BE A SECRET, YOU SHOULDN'T BE IN IT.

15. EVERYTHING CAN CHANGE IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE. BUT DON'T WORRY; GOD NEVER BLINKS.

16. TAKE A DEEP BREATH.. IT CALMS THE MIND.

17. GET RID OF ANYTHING THAT ISN'T USEFUL, BEAUTIFUL OR JOYFUL.

18. WHATEVER DOESN'T KILL YOU REALLY DOES MAKE YOU STRONGER.

19. IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO HAVE A HAPPY CHILDHOOD... BUT THE SECOND ONE IS UP TO YOU AND NO ONE ELSE.

20. WHEN IT COMES TO GOING AFTER WHAT YOU LOVE IN LIFE, DON'T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER.

21. BURN THE CANDLES, USE THE NICE SHEETS, WEAR THE FANCY LINGERIE. DON'T SAVE IT FOR A SPECIAL OCCASION. TODAY IS SPECIAL.

22. OVER PREPARE, THEN GO WITH THE FLOW.

23. BE ECCENTRIC NOW. DON'T WAIT FOR OLD AGE TO WEAR PURPLE.

24. THE MOST IMPORTANT SEX ORGAN IS THE BRAIN.

25. NO ONE IS IN CHARGE OF YOUR HAPPINESS BUT YOU.

26. FRAME EVERY SO-CALLED DISASTER WITH THESE WORDS 'IN FIVE YEARS, WILL THIS MATTER?'

27. ALWAYS CHOOSE LIFE.

28. FORGIVE EVERY ONE EVERYTHING.

29. WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.

30. TIME HEALS ALMOST EVERYTHING. GIVE TIME TIME.

31. HOWEVER GOOD OR BAD A SITUATION IS, IT WILL CHANGE.

32. DON'T TAKE YOURSELF SO SERIOUSLY. NO ONE ELSE DOES.

33. BELIEVE IN MIRACLES.

34. GOD LOVES YOU BECAUSE OF WHO GOD IS, NOT BECAUSE OF ANYTHING YOU DID OR DIDN'T DO.

35. DON'T AUDIT LIFE. SHOW UP AND MAKE THE MOST OF IT NOW.

36. GROWING OLD BEATS THE ALTERNATIVE -- DYING YOUNG.

37. YOUR CHILDREN GET ONLY ONE CHILDHOOD.

38. ALL THAT TRULY MATTERS IN THE END IS THAT YOU LOVED.

39. GET OUTSIDE EVERY DAY. MIRACLES ARE WAITING EVERYWHERE.

40. IF WE ALL THREW OUR PROBLEMS IN A PILE AND SAW EVERYONE ELSE'S, WE'D GRAB OURS BACK.

41. ENVY IS A WASTE OF TIME. YOU ALREADY HAVE ALL YOU NEED.

42. THE BEST IS YET TO COME.

43. NO MATTER HOW YOU FEEL, GET UP, DRESS UP AND SHOW UP.

44. YIELD.

45. LIFE ISN'T TIED WITH A BOW, BUT IT'S STILL A GIFT."

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio